Signs that your spirit baby is with you and is trying to assure you of their presence

 FOR EVERYONE WHO IS TRYING TO CONCEIVE WITHOUT RESULTS, THE SILENCE MAY BE A GREAT FRUSTRATION... THE SILENCE OF THE UNKOWN, THE SILENCE OF UNCERTAINTY, THE SILENCE OF THE ABSENCE OF A BABY. BUT WHAT IF THAT SILENCE IS EXACTLY HOW YOU CAN COMMUNICATE WITH THE SOUL OF YOUR FUTURE CHILD?

The best way to communicate with your baby and to listen or be open to their sign is ... the silence. It is important to silence your environment and silence your mind. Let's face it, your mind tells you all day and every day, that "it's difficult to conceive", that maybe "you're never going to be pregnant",  "you're not going to be able to have a healthy baby", bla bla bla. The only way to get away from these negative thoughts and feelings is to shut them down for a while. 

The best practice is to meditate and be silent with the intention to connect with your spirit baby. Imagine that your spirit baby is in front of you and truly believe that it is true (and it really is). Have a conversation with your baby, tell them what you feel ,,, your insecurities, your fears, your doubts ... and connect with his/her heart. Feel the love between you and sit there for as long as you can. You can even ask a question and then remain in silence. Maybe you get a feeling, a knowing of the answer and you feel in your heart, that's the answer from your spirit baby. If not you can finish your meditation, but believe that the answer will get to you soon. Many times the answer does not come right away or you are too focused on getting an answer (and connected to your mind again), that you miss it.  

Some signs that your baby may send you, include:

- their presence: you just feel a huge love and you just "know" that it does not only come from you;

- a song that plays on the radio ... it may be the title of a song or a sentence, where you just feel a chill or a knowing that IT is a message for you;

- a dream; 

- a special object that suddenly finds its way to you and you can relate it to your baby:

- a feather on your way. After my second miscarriage I asked my baby for a sign, that it would come back to me again. On the next day, I saw a very small feather laying on the floor just beside my bed. I was at the hospital at that time, where all the windows were closed and the pillows weren't made of feathers. I don't know how it got there and I'm not saying that it was some kind of miracle, but the baby-sized-feather found its way to me exactly when I had just asked for a sign. And yes, my 3rd child was born 10 months later. 

- there are many other ways and some can be special to you, where only you feel and know that it's a sign for you from your spirit baby. 

The important here is not to rationalize it too much, otherwise you miss a message, just because "it's too good to be true". It's important to feel with your heart and your soul. 

It would be really nice, if you could share some stories (your story) in the comments below. It may inspire others.