In our greatest pain can rely immense strength and love - when losing a child or a pregnancy becomes unbearable!
LOSING A CHILD IS THE MOST DEVASTATING EXPERIENCE THAT WE GO THROUGH AS A HUMAN BEING. IT'S THE FEAR OF EVERY MOTHER AS SOON AS WE SEE THE FIRST HEARTBEAT ON A MONITOR AND IT'S A PARENT'S GREATEST PAIN AND IT CHALLENGES US IN EVERY SINGLE POSSIBLE ASPECT.
I get challenged myself whenever I have a client, who has lost a child, or has lost a baby in the womb or right after they were born, mostly because I am a mother myself and I can feel their pain as my own. It's the most difficult aspect of my gift and it surely takes me some hours to release the emotions related to that reading. But at the same time, it can be the most profound and healing moment I am able to experience in the shortest amount of time.
Because if you turn the coin, what is on the other side of pain? LOVE! And it can be the most beautiful and unexplainable feeling we can ever experience.
At the perspective of the soul we all choose when we are born and when we die. We, as human beings, associate dying as something "negative", and loss as something painful, because we lose someone we love. But at a soul's perspective, dying is something natural and many souls choose to have a very short earthly experience next to the chosen parents. Most of the times, it can be karmic or it can be a way of this soul to feel a life filled with love. The connection that every parent has with their child is so strong and it starts after the moment they know that they're welcoming a child in their family. The whole pregnancy is filled with expectations, with joy and love, because you are already connected to your child at a soul's level and it feels your love too. This interaction and connection is the most intense, that a parent ever experiences as a human being. The birth experience is the peek of this connection and the parents experiences the most loving and joyful moment of their lives. The moment a baby is born and meets its parents for the first time, is unexplainable with words... every single word that I would use, wouldn't be able to describe the feeling of it. Now imagine all the love that the baby is in contact with and receives!! It's an explosion of joy and love and it's the most magical moment every single baby is exposed to .... and imagine that at a soul's level!
The moment you got to share with your baby (be it 4 weeks in pregnancy or after weeks, months or years as a child) you got to share for a lifetime or even an existence. That period of time was touched with love and it is a gift, that you were able to share together. You were chosen by that soul to be its mother or father. It chose YOU to love him/her and he/she loved you back. And this love will never ever end.
Do the following exercise:
- Close your eyes and feel everything around you ... connect yourself with the energy around you.
- Think about your baby / child. Think about its energy, about the time you were together.
- You're still capable of feeling it as it was just yesterday, right? You even feel its love for you.
Now ... who told you that what you are feeling is just your imagination? Your parents, society, and the list goes on. But what you feel NOW is still REAL. You are feeling your child's energy, your love for him/her and its love for you. And you can do this so simple exercise every time you miss your child.
Some years ago I came across a video by Gary Zukav, who explained, what I was meaning to show to my clients, in a perfect way:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=thqOo25aenU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULEpx8B-Krk
Your child is still with you, its energy is with you and all around you and you can feel his/her love and presence whenever you think or talk about them and when you connect to their energy. They were loved, but you are loved too ... connect to that love and release the pain a little bit more every day.
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